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[quote=Anonymous]You are happy with the situation, except for the ultimatum? If so, I would simply put aside offense of the ultimatum (assuming that it is out of character). State that your budget stands at X, and that your original offer of 40 hrs per week at the agreed upon rate per hour still stands. She can chose to stay at the rate you originally agreed upon, or she can look for another arrangement. If you have the budget, you could offer her one night or a few hrs on the weekend, and give yourself a night out. That can be a nice safety valve for your sanity/marriage. I wouldn't put the amount per hour as your rate is good...and if you up the rate, and later need more hrs, then you may exceed your budget. [/quote]
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