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[quote=Anonymous]Such hostility. Sheesh. One – I actually do provide the benefit under discussion to my nanny. So, I’m on your side. Two – My comments are aimed solely at why it is to your advantage to negoatiate, be explicit and upfront, etc. about your expectations. This is a point meant to be helpful. Three – If my solicitations for opinions/concerns from my nanny were met with this kind of vitriol, I’d rethink the relationship. Maybe the employer is a nutter, or maybe they don’t realize the issue is this important to you. Or whatever. If you don’t engage in a professional discussion, you won’t know. And if you leave in an unprofessional manner, getting that next job could be harder for you. Do what you want, but your suggested tactics tell me your thinking emotionally and not strategically. [/quote]
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