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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Exactly. The only thing that makes me wonder if OP is 16, is the question of being "allowed" to do anything. Can you envision your mb talking about what she's "allowed" to do at her job? If she's a grownup, she likely understands what's kosher and what isn't, but being "allowed" is really just for children, not for intelligent adults. Whenever something new comes up, you discuss the issue and arrive at an agreeable solution. That's usually how adults interact in a mutually respectful way. [/quote] [quote]OP here and you're insufferably dumb. You're not allowed to speed in your car, drink liquor in a movie theater, or blast music from your office computer. Everyone of every age has rules they follow PP. In this particular case, bringing a friend to work would not be considered kosher (in your words) but an MB might make an exception and allow it under certain circumstances. If you think you get to set the rules at your place of employment you've never been employed and I don't care how much you protest. Companies pass out handbooks covering what employees are and are not allowed to do - gasp even when their staff are in their 40s and 50s![/quote] +10000 I am very sick of the idiot nanny who constantly posts that she should get to do anything and any rules means that she isn't trusted. BS. Childish attitude. [/quote] I'm a MB, not a nanny, and I couldn't disagree with you more. A nanny is not an office job. I have a very professional nanny however nannying is a different kind of professional. I do trust my nanny and all of her judgements. I would be completely fine with her having a friend tag along for a couple days. No, as my nanny, I do not tell her what she is allowed or not allowed to do. I don't have "rules". I hired her because I trusted her judgement to run my household in my absence and make any decision I would make while I am not home with my children. My children are my world and I would never hire a nanny that I didn't trust 100% to make decisions that weren't in their best interest. I have friends around some days and my friends love my kids! A long as the friend she had around was happy to be around my kids, have fun! My kids love meeting new people![/quote]
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