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If asking people to take care of their own children is judgmental, then so be it. I do judge people who sit around while others take care of their children-regardless if they are being paid or not. The point of childcare is to provide alternative care for children when their parents are unable to do so themselves, not when the parents feel like sleeping in, sitting and drinking their wine, or finishing up their phone conversations and changing out of their work clothes for 30 minutes at the end of the day. When you have children, your life changes, just because you have the means to pay someone to deal with these changes, does not make it right

Thank you!!!! Nannying is not my issue. [b]My issue is lack of parenting[/b]. I know people who need a nanny more then this family does but cannot afford one. [b]I'm not judging anyone. All I'm saying is that one the parents are home, be a parent. If you can't or don't want to deal with your kids, then you shouldn't have had one. [/b]

I don't care if I was paying someone a million dollars, I would feel awkward having them take care of my child when I was home. Another thing is the father gets them every other weekend. I try to make it easier for him because its a long drive for him, so ill meet him somewhere. But I don't feel I should be driving out of my way to meet him. Again this was never discussed. Apparently the last nanny did this. 
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You are all entitled to your opinons.  But your posts (some bolded specifics above) are the exact definition of judging someone.  That is exactly what you're doing.

Obnoxious.  There are often painful lessons in humility ahead for folks who think they're so much better than everyone else.[/quote]

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