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[quote=Anonymous]OP - I can see why you would just let this slide for the remaining time, and I think it's very generous of you to consider any type of bonus.

But, I just want to make the case for talking to her now - especially in the light of the long positive relationship you've had with her.  If it's possible to clear the air at all you can at least enjoy the remaining weeks (maybe) without constantly resenting what she's doing, worrying about what else she might be up to, etc...  Also, I absolutely agree w/ others that the other family needs to know.  Maybe she's been "stealing time" from them in ways also - perhaps in her head even to offset what she's doing in the afternoon.

But no matter what, wouldn't you rather end on an honest note?  And if you can clear the air now perhaps there is a way to restore some bit of the relationship you have had with her - 5 years is a long time to have the relationship end this way.  So sad.  Totally her fault of course - what she's done is completely unacceptable.  I just think I would find it very hard to continue to live w/ her in our home knowing this was going on but not saying/doing anything about it.

Glad you have another nanny lines up.  If you decided to end the relationship early and have the other nanny start sooner than planned I think that be totally defensible also.  This nanny has seriously disrespected her relationship with you.  [/quote]

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