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[quote=Anonymous]Nutty poster calling all of the nannies names, you need to calm your bitter self down. Because a couple of nannies say ridiculous things is not an excuse to dismiss, and talk down to all the others.

To OP, I can understand where you are coming from in feeling like your nanny went behind your back when she changed your DS's diet. That's not okay. But you really should ask yourself what you would have preferred she do? How would you have felt if she had told you she thought it was a dairy allergy, you disagreed, and she continued to feed DS dairy knowingly making him sick?

I think you should have a conversation with your nanny and start with apologizing for dismissing her instincts and experience. But be sure to also address your concerns that she made what you feel is a big decision in changing his diet and that in the future big decisions/changes need to be discussed and okay'd with you. Take this situation and use it to improve your relationship with your nanny, not as a reason to distrust her. Let her know that in the future you will not be so quick to dismiss her thoughts/instincts, and ask that she openly communicate with you. You closed the door to open communication when you dismissed her initial concerns.[/quote]

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