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[quote=Anonymous]Most importantly, I would like the doctor to help her see the satisfaction of nannying in the positive difference she has made in the life of her charges - not whether or not they remember her, and they most likely won't. A job well done should bring satisfaction regardless of whether the beneficiary remembers it. A surgeon who performs heart surgery is satisfied when the patient's heart mends - whether the patient remembers him is irrelevant. A math teacher gains satisfaction from her pupils becoming math proficient - whether they remember her person is irrelevant. So I think the nanny should gain satisfaction from taking good care of her charges and making a positive difference in their lives. That's her version of the job well done, and whether the beneficiary remembers her personally or not, she has had impact on his/her life. That should be enough. Personal gratitude is irrelevant.[/quote]
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