Reply to Question for the parents.

Forum Index » General Discussion

Reply to "Question for the parents."

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This reeks of troll. Fascinating how OP's story has changed throughout the thread to make it more in her favor. The original post talked about the allergist for 3 hours, then it's turned into a weekly hospital appt for 3 hours? Original post said nothing about the other kids -- who is watching them while OP and the mom are at the allergist/hospital weekly? The dad? I thought he was completely useless according to OP? By the way, as someone who also has allergist visits, they don't take weekly 3-hour appointments. The initial visit might be that long depending on testing, but most subsequent visits are 90 minutes tops.

OP elected to cook, meal prep, and do laundry, and is now annoyed that they like her to do those extra tasks?  :roll: If someone wanted to volunteer to do my laundry and cook for me, you'd better believe I'd like it to continue! You only have yourself to blame for this part, OP. You chose to take on the extra work. According to you, you've been doing this for 25 years -- this isn't your first rodeo, and you should have known what to expect. [/quote]
OP here, so let me clear some things up since you think you have all the answers. First, your allergy and how it affects you will definitely be different to how said same allergy will affect someone else. The baby has extreme allergy issues that this medical visit is needed once a week every week for two months according to his mother so they can give him small doses of the things he's allergic to then keep him there for three hours minimum to make sure he doesn't have a reaction to it (it's some sort of therapy). When I initially made my post I was briefed via text until she got all the details so that's why I did not add that it'll be every week FYI. I did not see it necessary to list the amount of kids or mention them, so in answer to the bs you're spewing there are 4 kids total 7,4,2,9mths. Two oldest in school until 3 I have toddler and baby. It's full time. I offered to help the mom in those situations because she needed the help and I was not going to sit around and watch her spiral especially when her husband acts as though everything is a chore when it comes to helping her out so I did and I made it clear this is only when I can, it's not mandatory or in my contract and she was ok with that needless to say she kept asking anyway. I don't know where people like you get off assuming stuff just because it doesn't make sense to you. So we're clear I was hired to care for children only, no housekeeping, no drs appointments, that is taken care of by the parents all of this is in my contract. In answer to your other silly remark this is my first rodeo when it comes to foolishness like this. I have never experienced chaos like this all my past families stuck to the contract even if I offered to help out here and there. Also, both parents are always active and present, never have I ever experienced such toxicity in a household so Idgaf if you think it's made up or it doesn't make sense it's what's going on. If anyone's a troll it's you dear so run along and take your other friends with you.
[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics