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[quote=Anonymous]It’s not “selfish” of them, you need to change your perspective. They’re working parents frustrated at the situation.

If they are paying well, then yes, they probably do expect you to take on days like this. Nanny families aren’t paying top dollar for nothing, they expect something in return.

If they’re just paying you a standard nanny rate, and you don’t have a contract spelling out sickness, I think the general rule applies - Nannie’s work through colds / low grade fevers, Nannie’s do not work when it’s a high grade fever, stomach virus, Covid, flu, strep (until child is on antibiotics).

They’re still “young” parents if this is their first. Eventually they’ll learn that at some point, the buck stops with them as the parents. They’re ultimately responsible for their kid and there’s limits of what another person is willing to do.

This is a “them” problem, not your problem. However, they’re looking for a team player and someone who will help them make the whole “working parent” thing work. If that’s not you, no problem!  But you should be clear with them that you’re not willing to go above and beyond so they can find someone who will, and you can find a family that won’t ask you to do so. My best to all of you![/quote]

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