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[quote=Anonymous]What's done is done but going forward -- Tell her no boyfriend staying in your home. Up to you if she stays for the dog. The boyfriend doesn't have the background check & references etc. You can say - you know him but we don't. You said she needs to be told stuff so this is another example. When he's making the small talk with you, I'd ask him about career aspirations but that's me. If I could provide info I would do that too. Or any opportunities I knew. I would also tell the nanny that she said she would be with him (@ his mommas house??) on weekends & it's gone to him being around all the time. And that she's the employee, not him, so why is he there running up utility bills? Plus maybe distracting from her job. You can be fair, kind & still draw boundaries. [/quote]
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