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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do u work at home? Why don’t you say “ what happened to Larlas clothes?” When you see it happen? This almost falls under micro managing so be careful. An 18mo s be able to sit and eat for 15-20 mins. [/quote]

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My office is in the basement. I try to take my lunch break with my daughter and so far it’s has been very dramatic. I don’t interfere with nanny rules and try my best not to be in the way. Kitchen is big enough for all of us but my husband has advised me to eat my lunch in my office. I have for the past three weeks and my baby is still in diaper during lunch. I believe our nanny has different views how to feed a toddler and we clashed on a few things so far. [/quote]

Huge mistake, if you were eatting lunch with her daughter.  Always, it's a big drama, lots of work and so stressful for the nanny.  Poor lady.  We know you must love your daughter;  but why don't just pretend to be out of the way also for lunch time.  Pretend like you are going to the office everyday.  If you wish to spend time with your daughter, you have all the time all the world to do it in dinner time.

Also it doesn't matter if kitchen items enough.   Even you could be in one corner and your nanny is in the other corner of the table/counter with the baby.  Anyways, you are there.  Your baby is watching and just knows you are the mom and you are right there;  so give her more freedom to make a big drama as always;  refusing to eat.  This also result as a distraction for her.

Why don't you do what other parents do.  Learn how to share the house with your nanny;  giving her space with the child.  Just come up to the kitchen to make a quick lunch and go back to your space work.  And let the nanny handle the situation and also have their space of work and for have lunch aswell.[/quote]

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