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[quote=Anonymous]I think there’s a big difference between asking her to add groceries to her normal duties (job creep), vs helping out for 1-2 weeks while she will have no other childcare duties. You talk about only doing things for the kids… do the kids not need to eat while they’re in quarantine? Would dropping off some crafts or other things to entertain sick kids not be “child-related duties”? I think it’s reasonable to ask a nanny to do these things when they are INSTEAD of normal duties rather than IN ADDITION TO. It’s these type of “stress” situations that reveal how you feel about your nanny long-term. If this is someone amazing, then you look at this as a terrible inconvenience in your life that can’t be helped like most of Covid. If she is just so-so and you have been putting up with a lot of sub-optimal stuff for childcare, then you are probably pretty upset at her. Would her dropping off some groceries even make a difference in how you feel about the situation? I feel like there’s a good chance you would still be overwhelmed, as picking up groceries is a drop in the bucket.[/quote]
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