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[quote=Anonymous]It's clear that many people responding here don't have childcare experience before becoming parents. When you live with a child and spend 50+ hours a week with that child for a child's entire life, it is psychologically harmful to the child for a caregiver to just disappear. Why don't parents acknowledge their own insecurities and feelings of threat from (good, responsible, long-term) caregivers? It has always been baffling to me that someone thinks acknowledging the bond a child has with a caregiver threatens a bond a child has with his/her parents. Why do some parents routinely revert to the "it's just a job" attitude when it's so clear that caregiving is so much more than that?

It sounds like OP effectively parented this child when no one else would. This situation is much more common than we would like to admit (albeit in the extreme). Love for a child is a powerful thing, and it can be used to manipulate both sides (parents and caregivers).

[quote=Anonymous]Dear Super Nanny!!!

You are the real shero!!! Being a nanny is not stocking lipstick in isle 5. There is no amount of money for your love and care as a human.  Ignore the trolls who are petty and cowardly.  I feel sorry for you and your little friend.  I don’t have a solution.  Reading your TRUTH was inspiring and I know this dirty diaper work situation.  Talking about it is the truth and healing.  Thank you for being a real shero…. and sharing your story.  I wish you knew other kind nannies like me… to help and support you better.  What happened to you is real, unkind and unfair.  These are BAD people.  I hope you continue to be your best self and success comes your way.

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