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[quote=Anonymous]Dear OP, 
I had a similar situation where I saw inappropriate behaviors on an incoming overseas au pair’s social media after we matched, prior to the arrival.  I did ask her about it, and she denied it completely.  She was obviously lying and I just wanted to give her the benefit of the doubt because we really liked her during the interview process.  It started the match off on a very bad foot, with very little trust, and after numerous judgement-related incidents (not exactly what the social media problems were though), we had a very fast rematch.  It was unpleasant for everyone, especially my kids, and I got the sense that she was shopping around for new families the minute she got the visa.  I just wish I listened to people here when I posted about the problem initially.  Save your time and effort and now and find someone who you really have a good vibe with from the get go.  Don’t bother bringing this person to your house for a trial.  It sucks for everyone to start out with a trust deficit.  [/quote]

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