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[quote=Anonymous]We endured this last year in the last few months of a good but not great au pair - I was SO angry at being disrespected via the lying that I ended up changing my relationship with her to strictly business, but we didn't rematch because we needed the care and she was good with our kids. So, one option is to go with the "don't ask don't tell", but explain to her that as a result of your lack of trust/her lying she will have her wear her mask when she is with your kids and not join the family for dinner or any of the fun this you do together. That is the price of her lies. Sounds so dramatic as I re-read it :-)[/quote]
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