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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Our former Au pair asked us for this, and both me and my husband work for the government. She was really upset when we said no. Actually she didn’t ask us to sponsor her, she just wanted to live rent free in our house for “just two to four years”. In exchange for nothing because we couldn’t accept childcare from her on her student visa (as we are govt workers but also no one can legally accept child care from someone on a student visa… that’s a violation of the visa regardless of your job). Anyway this debacle sort of ruined our relationship for a bit but we do see her from time to time in dc, and she facetimes the kids. [/quote] Same. We told her we were feds on like month 3 and she asked for a rematch the next day. Left hours later. She had plans that we couldn't accommodate and she didn't see the point of continuing to keep up the act. It was tough, but it was for the best. [/quote]
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