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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is absurd.  She gets a stipend and can use her stipend to pay for uber's or her boyfriend can pick her up.  Personal transportation outside basics (i.e. errands) is her responsibility.  If she wants to buy a car and pay for insurance, that's her choice and right as an adult.  Tell her fine, but she has to pay for the car, gas, insurance and repairs and explain to her how much it will cost.  She is an adult.  Stop treating her like your child.[/quote] i know she is not a child, but she is my employee who also lives with me, so I am also her landlord. As a landlord and employer, I do not want to permit her to have a car.[/quote]

I am PP with the 2 options. As absurd as your AP sounds, it is her right to get a car if she wants one, you don’t have the right to forbid it, however you can rematch and it seems like that is the only way out of this situation. I am sure asking to rematch will bring her back to her sense. She wants to stay around for the bf unless she was already planning to get married soon.[/quote]

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