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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Nanny here.  Maybe you should be a little more specific about your first Post.  So you MB tells you like:  "ohhh Ana I can see you like really tight clothes"  or " Ohhh Ana... I think you are showing to much breast with that blouse"  or " I don't think I would be wearing that kind of clothes  if I were over my 40s"  or "  Ohhh Ana.. I guess you must love your outfit bcs I can see you wear it always every day"  or " ohhh Ana.. I think something smells bad around here (when she is next to you)"  or " Ohhh Ana.. you don't feel cold wearing that short and showing off your legs?"  Or " I always make sure to wash my hair when I see my hair gets too greasy bcs I hate it.  What about you Ana?".  I was just trying to guess a little more in details what kind or comments your MB tells you.  That way Moms here and Nannies here can help a little with some advices.[/quote]

OP here. MB a couple of weeks ago passive aggressively alluded to the fact that I wear some of the same outfits regularly. These are clothes that can withstand playing with children, chauffering them around town, playing outside, walking the equivalent of several miles throughout their house, cooking, etc. when I am working. She did not explicitly SAY IT, it was a convo about something else but she really worked in her thoughts about MY clothes and I know this specifically because it could not have applied to anyone else. I cannot tell why because the details would be obvious to her.

I am just saying the past few months she and some of the kids have been rudely nitpicky with personal critiques. NOTHING has changed about my hygiene. Some days I shower TWICE and engaged her neurosis at the beginning of this pandemic last year when we were all so scared. Nothing has changed about how clean I am, and continue to be. I carry extra sets of clothes with me when I come over, something not a lot of people would put up with. I could certainly have c ommented about some of the rags that the boys wear, but do I? No way!!! First, I have manners and second, that is not my place.[/quote]

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