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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We once had an au pair who would grab her dinner and take it to the dining room and eat by herself while we were eating in the kitchen table. She would refuse to join us even though we tried to make her feel welcome. Not eating in separate dining spaces would be part of the familiy (at a minimum)[/quote] Even if they are eating something different, eating together is the minimum; however;[b] if that’s the expectation, it should be part of her hours.[/b][/quote] NP. I disagree. To me, that’s being part of the family. Of course I don’t expect APs to eat every meal with us. But I would find sitting at a different table upsetting and quite frankly unacceptable. If someone lives under my roof and wants to be part of our family, then eating meals together occasionally is part of it. To be honest, our APs all enjoyed the family meals. [/quote]
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