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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think all APs say this because it is what they have been coached to say - and it may be true for some, in particular younger au pairs who are more like Mothers Helpers that they want to be part of the family in the sense they are another kid.  Most APs want to have the perks of family (vacations, etc) without having to be 100% with the family all the time.  This is healthy and normal.  Think back to when you returned how for holidays at your parents house during college (if applicable).  If you were like me, you joined for some preferred activities but tried to get out with friends a lot of the time you were home.  I think this is what to aim for with an AP.  [/quote]

This. It's a normal developmental stage for them to be gaining independence from their own family so acting like they are 10 y.o. and having to do everything with you makes no sense either.  They are in a transitional phase of their lives or they wouldn't be available to AP.

They are definitely getting coached thinking this phrase sounds dedicated and homey not a cause for concern.[/quote]

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