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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I'm from a culture where parents tend to have strong sway over their childen's lives, even well into adulthood. so I get it. I agree with a pp that your mom also sound like she has severe anxiety. If this were true, no amount of reasoning will work. [b]She will not listen to rational, well thought out plans, b/c her mind is closed up to new things[/b]. You have only two choices: forge ahead and incur her wrath, or bow to her fear and be resentful for the rest of your life. I applaud your desire to be open and transparent with her, but be prepared that as the process moves along, her threats may escalate and she may actually carry out sabotages. I wish you all the best. [/quote] Hi, thank you very much. She will not listen to rational, well thought out plans, b/c her mind is closed up to new things - THIS!! That´s how I feel now. I´ll do my best to live my life to the fullest in a respectful way to her. [/quote]
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