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[quote=Anonymous]Talk to her OP. So many variables here - especially the type of cancer she has. Maybe you keeping her employed in some capacity for a couple of months while she needs flexibility for treatments is wonderful. Maybe you letting her go now means she can collect maximum unemployment while getting care. Maybe some generous under the table severance, combined w/ unemployment would actually be the best solution. Maybe unemployment w/ some occasional under the table work for you when/if you all would want that makes the most sense. Maybe a summer off (with whatever combo of above makes sense) combined w/ a stellar reference from you means she can self quarantine and then start a new job w/ a newborn in a couple of months. There are ways for all of you to acknowledge that the time has come for you all to stop having a nanny, and to take care of her, without martyring anyone. [/quote]
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