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[quote=Anonymous]Hello OP. I understand how upset you are. She just got here so it's still time to have a talk with her about food. Maybe she should eat separately if she's about to be a bad role model for your children. And tell her she can help herself from what you usually buy. I'd give her an extra $20 per week for special food and that's it. You shouldn't fat shame her. You're not fat for nothing, there's always a psychological problem behind it, it can be abuse, a terrible childhood, rape etc, she's not just fat because she used to like eating. You're the grown up here, also tell her that most au pairs who come to the US gain weight and that it's good to be careful but she has to eat healthy. Say it once, like a mom would tell it to her daughter and that's it. She's young and can make mistakes, give her a chance to be a good AP and be frank about the food or it'll be a nightmare. Good luck ![/quote]
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