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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. We’re currently hosting AP as an AP in her second year. She is really great, a true member of the family. She is asking to stay with us for what sounds like 2 years while she does community college. I like the idea of giving her a couple of months to find something. She is nervous that her parents won’t be able to afford an apartment in the dc area. I get it and I like having her around. Unlike the stage 5 clinger (hilarious!) she has her own space and is respectful of ours but also will linger after I get home from work to have dinner as a family and help clean up or whatever. [/quote] My previous AP is also staying in the U.S. as a student (not in my home) and they ALL work illegally to pay rent and other stuffs, I hope she is not counting just on her parents support because that won't be enough. I think you can let her stay like PP as a family member which means she will be expected to help as a family member or you give her 6 months to figure out while you are also figuring out how life without AP is working for your family. Just let her know if things change and you need an AP soon or whatever she might have to move. She will probably meet a bf within the first few months and move out ;-)[/quote]
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