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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]12.08 here.  It’s weird to me that everybody is willing to dismiss this your girl’s feeling and reasons for her actions.  As a nanny and babysitter, I see the reason behind the behavior as much more important than imposing a punishment that doesn’t change a child’s mindset.[/quote]

First, I don’t see that at all.  OP was falling all over herself explaining the older child’s thoughts and feelings.

Second, this isn’t a toddler - it’s a nearly seven year old who should be able to control destructive actions regardless of the reason.  Locking a door is absolutely unacceptable and dangerous behavior. Not listening to an authoritative figure is also unacceptable regardless of the kid’s reasons, problems or motivations.

It’s not her mindset - it’s her ability to control her behavior.  The kid is almost seven!! [/quote]

OP isn’t talking to the daughter and finding her reasons for anything.  Where did you see her say that?

Where do you see anything about the child being destructive?  She closed and locked a door, she didn’t break it...

Having a 7yo rebel is completely normal, especially if the adult is authoritative versus collaborative.  The sitter is starting to have issues with a preschooler too.  She’s just not equipped to work with those ages.[/quote]

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