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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Uh no. I'd corner AP and her mom. Expressly invite them to lunch and gush about how great it is that she could come visit. That you'd love to get to know her. That AP has shared (something) about her culture and home life. Then hand her mom some flowers or chocolate or something to welcome her. Does her mom not think it's weird that she's basically shutting the door in your face every time you try to say hi? I'd be very suspicious at this point. Are you sure the woman is her mom? Or maybe there's some lie AP is afraid that you'll catch her in, so she's limiting contact. I'd start wondering about other things as well... what are the chances your AP will pack up and leave WITH her mom to go home without giving any notice?[/quote] OP here. Thanks everyone for your input. I will try to "corner" the mom and AP more. I didn't even think that this woman might not be her mom...hmmmmm....This particular AP is very secretive and I'm glad she is leaving in a month! So yes, there likely is a whole story there. [/quote]
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