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[quote=Anonymous]I think you are unreasonable to ultimately ask her to give up 3 days of free time to do as she pleases so she can come with you to the mountain every month (I assume you leave friday evening and go back on Sunday, meaning she can't really do anything she would want to do friday evening, saturday or sunday) when you can only make her work 10 hours. Even if you still have time left to schedule her for, you are asking for more than is reasonable because even if she has all day off saturday/sunday, she won't be able to do anything she could want to do. Most 20 yo want to go clubbing and hang out with their friends, not relax in the mountains or middle of nowhere with kids. Regarding your husband being gone for 3 weeks, you can only schedule her for an extra 10 hours each week and still need to give her a day and half off so I am not sure what increase you meant to add to her schedule that would make her presence on that weekend suddenly paramount? I think it would be easier for you to schedule a date night during the week and let her have her weekends and for you to enjoy your country house as family. [/quote]
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