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[quote=Anonymous]My advice to you would be to have a frank discussion with her, and then talk to the LCC about a rematch. We just went through this with our new au pair, we made every excuse for her (homesickness, learning curve, etc.) but in the end she was giving it all she had to offer, which wasn't much. Turns out she was just a quiet, introverted person who had not enough experience with kids to really engage on the level required. Our LCC kept saying wait until the 30 day mark, and after that even she was supportive of us rematching. That said she is a nice person, but needs to be in a family with much older children and basically needs someone to keep them alive and drive them around. To be fair looking back there signals to this when we interviewed her, so its a learning process for everyone![/quote]
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