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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here....
This isn't really introversion.  She is immature and has taken the "part of the family" thing WAY more seriously than any other AP.  We are her social life.  It's super weird.  BUT she actually did go out last night with a "friend" (I think it was a date).  Where/how she met him I have no idea.  The thing is, she is a nice girl, really great with the kids, really helpful and competent.  I LIKE her.  But I wish she gave us more space.

We had a very introverted AP about 3 years ago and this is totally different.  The introvert stayed in her room pretty much all of the time she wasn't working and only made a couple of friends and very rarely went out with them.  [/quote]

Be direct. Watching tv and she starts chatting? Sorry, Larla, I’m too tired to talk and just want to watch my show right now.

Conversation with DH that she butts in on? Sorry, Larla. DH and I are discussing something. We will ask you if it’s appropriate that your opinion be heard in this matter.

Gets too excited about coming on mundane errands? Larla, while you are welcome to come while I pick up dry cleaning, I’m concerned that you should be doing things with other young people than tagging along with me. [/quote]

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