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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Unfortunately that is how dating in the U.S. is these days. You know, like in the movies! If you have a good handbook with rules (like she should be home 8 hours before shift starts, no car staying overnight, so bringing people home or sharing your address etc), just bring it back and let her read it and tell her those rules still apply (even for her second year) and maybe STOP listening about her sex life, because you are not going to like what you hear.
The other way of seeing this is that, many APs do that but don't share the info with HM. I think One problem is TMI is been shared.[/quote]

Yeah, I learned my lesson about asking what I thought was a harmless question of, "did you stay the night at a friends house last night?" I was just asking as general conversation, I wasn't asking to check up on her, but wasn't expecting the "I had a one night stand." reply. I do like that she is so comfortable with me, but yeah it was TMI. She will also say things to like, "I pooped 3 times today"   :lol:  she doesn't seem to have a TMI boundary. She told me she would never tell her own mom about it, but told me and her friends. I'm hoping that since she is telling her friends that they will be the ones to tell her this isn't a great idea. She also said she has been sharing her location with her friends, so they know where she is. Last night before she left, she told me she would text me something like "adsfsdfsdfsd" if I needed to look at where she is and call 911. Not a great plan.... but I guess it's something.[/quote]

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