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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is why people don't like to be honest. People like you OP is why kids hide stuff from their parents. The most that you can do is educate her on safe sex. [/quote]

I don't think she needs the safe sex talk from me, I think that would come across as insulting. I understand where you are coming come, but she obviously feels like she can be honest with me if she has told me all of this. I didn't parent her, I just listened and told her that I personally wouldn't go over to some guys house that I had never met before. I also was asking very honestly if this is a normal thing now. I realize I could be being a prude. I am just having a hard time thinking this is safe behavior. I would tell me best friend, my sister, or my daughter the same thing. [/quote]

It isn't safe, but ultimately it's her body, her choice who she wants to share it with. I'd have the talk about making good decisions and of course never inviting anyone to your home, etc, and then move on.  Provided she is still safe with your daughter and not talking openly about these choices with your kid, then i'd let it go, unless you are so upset about how she is choosing to act that you will begin to treat her differently.  [/quote]

I agree with you. I think we will just handle it right now by telling her she is never allowed to have someone over we haven't met and she isn't allowed to give out our information (like our full names) My daughter is only a year old, so that isn't a factor yet. I'll enforce the car curfew and home 8 hours before your shift if she continues to do things like return home 30 mins before she is on duty. I will also not ask about how her dates go anymore, because I just really don't want to hear about it. This is why I don't watch reality tv shows, lol

It honestly does make me lose some respect for her, but I wouldn't treat her differently because of it. [/quote]

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