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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Thank you everyone for confirming what I had already suspected.

She is our second nanny. Our first one was with us for about a year and a half and was just a rock star. She left to go to grad school around Thanksgiving. DH and I used to joke with each other that our first nanny ruined it for any potential future nanny because she was so awesome. That's why I wasn't sure if my expectations were just too high. But I'm sadly realizing that while our first nanny was truly great, our current nanny isn't only suffering from the comparison. She's just not meeting expectations period. I'm giving this background partially to explain why I'd like to try and make this work (if and only things get better) since DD already went through a childcare transition six months ago and I was originally hoping to not put her through another large change unless I absolutely have to.

That being said, I will be mentioning to our nanny tomorrow that we'd like to have a check-in sometime next week.

Thanks all. [/quote]

You are comparing her to your first nanny whom you describe as a "Rock star.," Unfair. Maybe your are also at fault for this comparison.   [/quote]

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