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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Here is why kids act up with mothers around:

Children feel safest with their mothers. Once a mother walks through the door,they are greeted with the uninhibited expression of a raw emotional release, after a day of holding in all kinds of feelings.

https://www.creativehealthyfamily.com/the-reason-why-children-are-800-worse-when-their-mothers-are-around/

Nannies, I know your job is tough but some empathy for the child (and their mother), and the way they are acting, goes a long way.[/quote]

No.  This is only partially true and certainly not the case in OP’s situation.  I echo the above that many, many working mothers feel guilt for being away from their child and give in just to be “popular” and have a peaceful evening.  In some ways, I see a correlation between this generation of working mothers and the old “weekend Dad”.

I am a working mother too so I understand the desire.  I truly do.  But it is important for parents to be true parents.  The parents should be firmer and set expectations - not the nanny.

I hope OP had a good conversation with her employer.  [/quote]

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