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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There is no graceful exit from this situation til you get a new AP. OP, I think you need to determine if this is a hill to die on. How often does this come up? Once a week? Or more? If once a week or less, I would tell your ex DH that you're worried AP will quit and try to enlist him in finding a solution. They just had a baby so they are tired, stressed, and totally irrational right now. Now is not the time to create huge waves if you want to have a good relationship with them. Try to find a less "in your face" solution and ask ex dH for help. [/quote] I think that this advice is bs. You do not have to bend over backwards for them. You help as often as you want, but you do not have to put up with his anger, entitlement, or anything else. It’s not fair to you or your AP.[/quote]
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