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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. I don’t plan to ask them to get a hotel! But I do plan to have a solid conversation in advance, making clear that we are already making an exception to our handbook rules (no opposite sex overnight guests; length of stay), and setting out clear expectations. Sleeping arrangements, expection that unless she is using vacation time she will be sufficiently rested and attentive to her regular work, and that she needs to take responsibility for her guest’s “care and feeding” rather than expect us to play the role of host in preparing for his visit, setting up what he needs, providing his meals for a week, and cleaning up after him. Sounds a bit harsh but I would prefer to establish clear expectations rather than try to course correct during his stay. [/quote]
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