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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. My fairly strong preference is to have them sleep in separate spaces. I have a 7th grader, a 5th grader, and two younger ones who giggle about "kissing" and I'm just not inclined to set up a situation in which anyone inadvertently hears/learns/observes something that's just not necessary right now. I haven't yet had the "responsible monogamous safety" discussion with the 7th grader (or 5th grader!) and I'm not feeling like sitting down for that talk just because she wants him to visit. One of the reasons I'd prefer they sleep apart is because I'd much rather encourage them to focus their energies on "private time" during the hours NO ONE ELSE is in the house. Then, less concern about what we have to carefully avoid and studiously ignore.[/quote]
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