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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Re 11:00 poster. Fine to provide that list as long as you do it [b]DURING matching[/b], not after. This would be an important indicator to a potential AP that there will be a more rules based approach in this family, which would be good for many but not a good match for all APs. [/quote] We do. And they're not exactly rules because we don't monitor if they get done unless it becomes really obvious. We'll say something about crumbs and carpet fuzz on the floor (which makes it obvious that vacuuming has not occurred in more than a week) but not do a white sock test on the floor of the kids' room. We certainly don't look to see if AP washed her sheets recently or took out her trash unless there's a noticeable stink or hoarder type overflow coming out of her room. It's really to get APs to think hard about matching with us and their own work ethic. [/quote]
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