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[quote=Anonymous]We tell APs up front that they are expected to contribute to household chores like a good roommate. This means occasionally taking out the kitchen trash (that everyone uses) or loading/emptying the dishwasher (that everyone uses). Occasionally = between more than being able to count in single digits how many times they've done it all year and not every single day.

In addition, we have a list of chores AP is solely responsible for or in conjunction with the kids, such as keeping the kids' room clean, playroom clean. Clean = empty trash, vacuum carpet, organize books on shelves, laundry and clothes put away, etc. For this, we also have a suggested weekly schedule (kids' room Monday, playroom Tuesday, etc.) and estimated time it takes (15-20 min/day).

Yes, I do feel it's a bit OCD to detail all of these, but I still find that APs forget or ignore things. Without it, however, I found APs barely lifted a finger after being told they need to "clean" up after feeding the kids lunch or seemed completely oblivious to the crumbs on the table or floor. APs need specific instruction on what "clean" means, otherwise they simply don't do it. So, next time, don't just tell AP to keep their room clean. Provide an explicit list that they need to make their bed, vacuum their carpet, etc. regularly.[/quote]

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