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[quote=Anonymous]What a terrible and awkward situation for your AP to be in. To hell with your XH, his wife, and their feelings. I would send a copy of what the description is, I would essentially “buy him out” of the AP contract (if he paid for any of the program fees), . I would write him and his wife a letter stating that because they tried to change the terms of their joint custody Child care arrangement, the arrangement no longer works for you or the AP. I would then give him two options:
1) you pay fully for the AP, and they secure their own childcare on the weeks that they have the kids
2) or they choose to use your AP on his childcare weeks for $125 a week (or whatever amount)

Even if he uses your childcare, I would keep the AP contract solely under my name, and pay fully for the AP fees to have more control over the situation.

Lastly, unless he is paying for half of the AP’s food, electricity, mobile phone, water usage, heat, etc etc etc they are *not* paying for half of the AP.

This has put your AP on a terrible situation. And what’s up with the anger issues? I’m glad you got out of that marriage - let him and his wife figure out how to care for her stepchildren / your kids AND her baby :/[/quote]

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