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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Small GPS tracker in her diaper bag?[/quote]

I would do that but she’s not in diapers anymore and usually the nanny just puts what they need in her own bag :([/quote]

Are you really agreeing that this is a good idea??  BEFORE you have a simple direct conversation with the person that you've entrusted with the care of your child!   The nanny is wrong to go against your specific directives but this is not the way to handle that issue.[/quote]

Op here. That’s the thing-I’ve tried talking to her. I’ve tried to understand her schedule and needs with her own kids and come up with a solution (e.g.-maybe she needs to leave early on Fridays). But when I do this, all of the sudden her answers and timeframes stop making sense and her statements become inconsistent. So I’m left always feeling unsure of what’s really going on. I suspect she is afraid/worried about making me change my schedule to accommodate her, and she doesn’t see the big deal with taking my DD on a 2.5-3 hour drive every week if DD is napping.[/quote]

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