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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I do think the lying is an issue, more the dirving 90 mins to pick up her kids than the other stuff. If she has worked for you for 2 years though why can't she take the kid more than 5-10 mins away?[/quote]

Op here. We are kinda weird about driving. It’s the most dangerous thing our kid does so we try to minimize it. We also live 10 minutes away from so many parks, the zoo, multiple museums, the gym, etc. I don’t consider it necessary for her to take DD any farther away. We have sometimes allowed it.

The thing is, I can’t prove she went 90 minutes away. I think that’s what happened but I don’t know. I’m gong to talk to the nanny today but because I think she’s lying, it’s hard to know if I’m getting anywhere.

The maddening part of this is I’ve offered to give nanny Fridays off at 2:00 so she can go get her kids by 4:00. When I offered this she claimed it was unnecessary and acted as if picking up her kids was much more flexible and they could get a ride From a friend. This makes me even more suspicious because she had said in the past that only she could sign them out of their school. I still can’t tel what’s going on, but I suspect she’s putting DD down for her nap at 11:30 and hitting the road, then maybe pulls her kids out early.

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Do you have anxiety issues or trust issues in general?  You seem extremely restrictive and although this does NOT excuse her if she is going far, it does explain why she may be lying to you.

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