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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes.

March 2017. My au pair was here 2 months. Thought everything was going well. No indication of an issue. Felt she was part of the family, etc.

I came home from a 2 week business trip overseas. The day I came home she said she wanted to rematch. Shocked me to the core.[/quote]

Was she uncomfortable being there with your husband? Did he expect her to do more work, which to longer hours, or something else that made her uncomfortable?  That would be my concern!

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Single HM.
She worked 20-25 hrs as my kids were in school. 
We treated her as part of the family, took her out for her birthday, etc. 
No idea on what made her uncomfortable because my LCC at the time would not let me have an EXIT or MEDIATION meeting with her, because in her words "she's made up her mind so what's the point".

So...I was truly BLIND.[/quote]

Single mom? So who watched your kids if you were gone for two weeks? Maybe the person was her reason. Or maybe you let her alone with kids for two weeks and that's why she left right after you came back.[/quote]

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