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[quote=Anonymous]as hf, if you feel that it would be easier to pay hourly and have your childcare provider pay for their own housing, food, transport, cell phone, etc, that way then why do you have an AP at all? why don't you just have a nanny? because that's actually a thing already-clearly the economic benefit of you paying her effectively $4 an hour is worth the extra hassle. so many people with APs get defensive acting like they would love to pay their AP hourly but are so limited by the program's constraints. there is no reason to opt into the program if you fundamentally disagree with it! hire a nanny, move in with family, put them in daycare, or stay home with your own kids. or, don't have kids at all. no one forced you to do this so don't act like such a martyr for the cause. [/quote]
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