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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. Thank you. I’m getting the feeling she took the position and found an excuse to back out. We double check her references ( she was referred to us by someone who’s best friends employed her for two years), and they spoke very highly of her skill set, experience, and her reliability. She balked at that the offer when we asked her to do housekeeping ([b] laundry for family,[/b] sweep/mom apparentment, [b]dishes[/b], [b]make our bed[/b], meal prep, etc.) and asked for a higher rate, which we paid. It just wasn’t a good fit, but I still am backing up my DH that he didn’t do anything wrong to warrant her behavior. [/quote] She took the job because she was starting to get concerned she wouldn't find another one. She was getting desperate. After a week or so, she started thinking, "Am I really THAT desperate that I am doing the parents laundry, dishes, and bed making? No! I'd rather work retail." She started looking for excuses for you to fire her (showing up late) and then your husband provided an excuse for her to quit (threat of physical harm.)[/quote]
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