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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So she knows what you earn; she has no idea what your other expenses are. But now she's going to be resentful no matter what, which can lead to all sorts of bad behaviors whether she continues in your employ or not, such as venting to her friends about how "rich" you are. I would not be comfortable with someone like that having a key to my house. [/quote] +1. Given her behavior - insisting on an outsized raise because you're "rich" and refusing to negotiate - I would start looking for someone new. You don't want someone like this in your home.[/quote] I totally agree with all of this! I’m just surprised that after she [i]admitted[/i] to snooping, you tried to negotiate with her. My response to her telling me she looked at my personal documents would have probably been more along the lines of, “excuse me?!” She must have been an amazing nanny before this whole mess for you to not want to immediately fire her. I find it so disrespectful that she took the time to really look at your tax return, and then [i]brought it up[/i] to you like there’s nothing wrong with what she did. You’re paying her fairly, and giving her good benefits, so you owe her nothing more. If you ask me, she’s really messed up a great position. Good luck, and please update us on how Monday goes if you have time![/quote]
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