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[quote=Anonymous]Nanny here. I honestly would lay it all out. Nanny, I don’t mind if you smoke but I do mind if you smell like smoke around my child. Third hand smoke is the most dangerous (share what you’ve found out in research). If you’re open to it, I would share (if you haven’t already) that your parents died of cancer. Let nanny know you really appreciate her and you are not judging her. However, this is a dealbreaker for you and if she’s not willing to change her clothes and wash her hands (which is reasonable) when entering the home, we have to part ways. I don’t think anyone would judge you if you keep her but if you decide to let it go, you can’t bring up her smelling like smoke anymore. As a nanny, if I smoked and my employer was willing to work with me, I would do what I can. And if my employer said “if this doesn’t work for you, I have to let you go” if I really loved (even liked) my job, I would make those changes right away! Good Luck! [/quote]
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