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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP again.

I’m getting mixed suggestions.

Either tell people in the interview (which seems odd to me) or do everything in my power to hide it.[/quote]

The only thing you have to do is accept the reality of bigotry and the possibility that this could happen again. How you navigate that going forward is up to you and your preferences. You could continue to be a very private person and say nothing and hope this never happens again, you could talk about it up front (or even mention your family in your profile that parents read -- "I live with my fiancee, Beth, and our two dogs, Rex and Rover"), you could make sure to never tell and even tell lies to keep people from finding out, you could ask your own questions in the interview to determine how the family is likely to feel about a gay nanny, or you could bring it up a little later in the game.

I will say that if I had a nanny candidate who wouldn't talk about her private life at all, I would find that strange. It would be off-putting, and we probably wouldn't match. I don't need to know every little detail about your life, but our nannies have all talked about husbands/kids/parents/pets/etc. as a natural part of conversation.[/quote]

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