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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Any woman who cheats with a married man, especially someone who is employed in their home, is pure filth. No way do I want to know any of them. [/quote] But the married man is blameless, right? The man is the one in a committed relationship who is cheating on his wife with someone he has control over (the nanny). It’s a power imbalance and while both parties are 100% at fault, the married man is where most blame should lie. We need to stop babying men and acting like they can’t control themselves. Do you know how many nannies I know who slept with their DB? None. Do you know how many nannies I know who quit because their DB was crossing a professional line? A solid handful. This culture where the “other woman” is at fault and the POS cheater can walk away blame free is BS.[/quote] It has nothing to do with fault, but yes, both parties are at fault. It had to do with pp saying it was “ easy for lines to get crossed”. As a professional, you do not let it ever cross that line. Even if he refuses to remain professional, you still do out of respect for his wife, the kids, and yourself. [/quote] Are you always this dramatic? She's right. Being a nanny is very different than any other job. It's very easy for the lines to get crossed. Lots of dad bosses flirt with their nannies. I've had to quit several jobs because of this. [/quote]
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