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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She doesn't need to come back, clean break. Your dd will be fine. If she asks about her tell her the truth.[/quote] Worst advice ever. Very 1950's. You don;t have to see the babysitter again if it was really that bad but definitely talk to your DD about the nanny a lot - never wait for the child to ask about her. Parents used to do this with the death, abandonment and divorce ("don;t mention it until they ask) and it was proven to be damaging as the child accepted internal blame and shame. [/quote] There is a difference between a nanny and parent. A nanny is a caretaker. It is meant to be temporary.[/quote] Every relationship is temporary in real life to an adult and every relationship is permanent to a child. Just "honor your child's relationship" (as another poster put it). Make things as easy on your child as possible. [/quote]
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