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[quote=Anonymous]Why do you think that your kids or you will be someone special for Au pair? Did you say to her that you like her, enjoying her company or that you like the way she is taking care of your children. Are those words or just being nice? Maybe you are expecting certain answer and she is not giving it to you.  You or your kids are not center of someone's world. She will come back to her country to her family and friends. You might be just an employee for her. Was it like that from the beginning? Maybe she is disappointed with an experience. Might look at Au pairing as boring, fake experience-its not a real job, gets some pocket money, not studying, parents at work, she constantly in someone's house, being on the other side of the globe, with probably demanding HP requiring additional attention, support, happiness. As an Au pair you are one of many nr 1,2...10. HP decide with who the child will be spending time with. If you think she is uninterested I bet you wouldn't let your kids spending time with her when the programme will be over. If you want to know what is in your Au pairs mind please don't communicate with her TALK WITH HER without kids or you will never know and she will leave one day and you will never know or see her.[/quote]

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